By Christy Byrne Yates, California, US
How would you navigate the complication of having your spouse display Dissociative Identity Disorder – previously called Multiple Personality Disorder – alongside symptoms of Alzheimer’s? Today, we delve into the memoir “Don’t Forget to Dance” with Marc Alderdice for our June Books & Chit Chat with Aging and Amazing. Marc takes us on a poignant journey through his wife Mary’s battle with early-onset Alzheimer’s, starting at age 59, and the extraordinary challenges they faced together, including her struggles with dissociative identity disorder.
We explore the deeply personal experiences that shaped Marc’s narrative, his wife Mary’s determination to do all she could to prepare herself for a dementia diagnosis and how his scientific background influenced their approach to Mary’s care. Marc also shares how he embraced the role of a male caregiver in a predominantly female sphere, the importance of self-care, and the insights gained from support groups continuing to meet virtually since Covid.
You’ll hear about the significance of activities and physical gestures in communicating with nonverbal loved ones, the inspiration behind the book’s title, and how Mary, despite her diagnosis, found joy in new hobbies and activities.
Join us as we uncover themes of love, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of happiness amidst the trials of Alzheimer’s.
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“I think our journey is positive and encouraging in the sense that it shows you really can make the best out of a bad situation. The person with Alzheimer’s and the loved ones can be as happy as possible. It may take some work, and it may take a little bit to change your mindset for how you approach things, but it certainly worked for us. “ Marc Alderdice
In this episode, you will:
- Understand the unique experiences of the Alzheimer’s journey, gaining insights that can help you navigate the challenges with more confidence.
- Prepare yourself emotionally and mentally for the impact of Alzheimer’s, arming yourself with the resilience and coping strategies needed to face the journey ahead.
- Explore the relationship between dissociative identity disorder and Alzheimer’s, gaining a deeper understanding of the complexities involved in caregiving.
- Discover valuable techniques for communicating with nonverbal Alzheimer’s patients, fostering deeper connections and understanding.
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